Uncut Jems: Marlowe Granados

Uncut Jems: Marlowe Granados

by Marlowe Granados, Advice Columnist and Author of Happy Hour I have a distinct memory of being a teenager crossing a major intersection and reaching into my handbag only to have a strip of condoms fall...
Ruthless Self-Compassion with Samantha Bitty

Ruthless Self-Compassion with Samantha Bitty

Jems recently spoke with sex and consent educator Samantha Bitty. What started as a convo about the best toner for bleached eyebrows ended as a thoughtful exposition of Samantha's beliefs regarding safer sex practices. Samantha...
Feelin’ It Out with Shelby Sells

Feelin’ It Out with Shelby Sells

In the comfort of her STUNNING Brooklyn apartment, Jems had the absolute pleasure of speaking with sex and relationship coach Shelby Sells. In her practice, Shelby provides a safe space for her clients to begin...
Uncut Jems: My Hour-Long Orgasm

Uncut Jems: My Hour-Long Orgasm

by Taylor Neal It is very common during sex, especially hetero sex, that once one or both parties cum the sex is mutually understood to be over.  Pat on the back, wipe the hands, job well...
Uncut Jems: How Erotica Became Part of My Gender Journey

Uncut Jems: How Erotica Became Part of My Gender Journey

by Dev Ramsawakh At the very end of last year, I began a testosterone microdose regimen as part of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) as a transmasculine person. I had been anxious about starting HRT for...
101: STI Disclosure

101: STI Disclosure

Editor's note: We recognize that personal safety should always be prioritized over disclosure—and that the act of disclosure puts some folks at risk, regardless of any precautions they've taken.---Openly discussing sexual health with partners, especially new...
Uncut Jems: My Rubber Cock

Uncut Jems: My Rubber Cock

At Jems, we know no amount of study can replace real life experience (though hearing from someone real, who we can relate to, is also very very helpful).  It’s this world of intelligence – real...
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Jems Loves MILFs: Vivien Lee on Self-Mothering and Mystique

Jems Loves MILFs is a series in which we ask moms of all kinds what gives them life. From art moms to aunties, grandmothers to Godmothers, single moms, queer moms, pet moms, and the mother...
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Manifest with Jems pt 2

What do you want to make come? On working with the power of collective action
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Manifest with Jems pt 1

What do sex and manifestation have in common? Jems shares tips and tricks to bring your desires to life