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Find Your Perfect Lubricant

Selecting the correct lubricant is crucial for a safe, pleasurable, and comfortable experience. Our curated collection features both silicone and water-based lubricants, each designed with your needs and health in mind. Explore the benefits of each type and discover the ideal match for your lifestyle.

Jems Is Committed to Clean, High-Quality Personal Lubricants

Both our silicone lube and water-based lube are crafted to meet the highest standards of safety, cleanliness, and effectiveness. Known for quality and transparency, Jems ensures that all products are formulated without harmful ingredients, offering you peace of mind and maximum comfort.

Non-Toxic: Free from parabens, glycerin, fragrances, and artificial flavors.
Sensitive Skin-Friendly: Designed for your pleasure and safety.
Accessible: Providing everything you need for a satisfying experience, at a price that makes sense.

About Silicone Lubricants

Why Choose Silicone?

Silicone lubricants are renowned for their long-lasting, silky-smooth texture. A small amount provides extended lubrication, making them ideal for intimate play, water activities, or when you desire a richer feel.

At Jems, our silicone lubricant is crafted with high-grade, non-toxic ingredients, ensuring a clean product that’s safe for your body. They are free from additives, parabens, glycerin, fragrances, and flavors.

About Water-Based Lubricants

Why Choose Water-Based?

Our water-based lubricant contains everything you need and nothing you don’t. They are free from additives, parabens, glycerin, and fragrances, making them a gentle choice for sensitive skin. When considering water based lube, it's also important to consider:

Accessible and budget-friendly, water-based lubes are a versatile staple in your intimate collection.
Natural: Our water-based formulas are unsweetened and flavored with vanilla, providing a natural and enjoyable experience without artificial fragrances.
Low Osmolality: Designed with low osmolality, they help maintain your body's natural moisture balance, reducing the risk of irritation.
Convenient, easy to clean, and compatible with all sex toys and latex or polyurethane condoms.

Find Your Perfect Personal Lube

Whether you prefer the silky glide and water resistance of silicone or the gentle, versatile nature of water-based lubes, Jems has the perfect lube for you. Both options are designed with your safety, pleasure, and well-being in mind, delivering clean, high-quality experiences every time.

Explore our collection today and enhance your intimate moments with confidence!

Water-Based Lubricants

Easy to clean up
Compatible with all condoms and toys
Feels light and natural
It can dry out quickly and may need reapplication.

Silicone-Based Lubricants

Long-lasting and resistant to water
Perfect for sensitive skin
Easy to clean with soap and water

Lubricant contributes to safer sex by reducing friction during sexual activity, which helps prevent tears, cuts, and irritation that can increase the risk of transmitting or acquiring sexually transmitted infections (STIs). When used with condoms, lubricants decrease the likelihood of condom breakage or slippage, enhancing their effectiveness as a barrier method. Additionally, high-quality, body-safe lubricants can make sexual experiences more comfortable and enjoyable, encouraging consistent and correct use of protection. Overall, lubricants play a vital role in promoting safer and healthier sex.
Gynecologists typically recommend lubricants that are:
• Free from parabens, fragrances, glycerin, and unnecessary additives
• Compatible with condoms
• Non-irritating and pH-conscious
• Safe for sensitive skin
These are the same principles behind every Jems formula. Both our silicone and water-based lubricants are crafted with minimal, body-safe ingredients to support comfort rather than work against it. Our water-based formulas are low-osmolality, which helps maintain the body’s natural moisture balance, something clinicians often prioritize when recommending intimate products.
To learn more about choosing a safe, clean lubricant, read more about choosing a lube that's safe for sensitive skin.
Yes! We believe that using isn't optional for anal play, it’s essential. The anus does not self-lubricate, so adding a high-quality lubricant significantly improves comfort, reduces the risk of tearing, and makes the experience safer for everyone involved. Many people prefer silicone lube for anal exploration because of its long-lasting glide.
If you’re new to anal play, start with gentleness, communication, and education. Explore Jems’ popular guide: 101: Anal Play.
Yes, many people who experience irritation, BV, or yeast infections find that using the right lubricant actually improves comfort. However, it’s always best to speak with your healthcare provider if you’re dealing with recurring infections or new symptoms. They can help determine what’s causing the irritation and whether certain products are appropriate for your body.
BV and yeast infections can be triggered by several factors, including shifts in vaginal pH, changes in the microbiome, hormonal fluctuations, antibiotics, friction during sex, or products that contain sugars, glycerin, fragrances, or harsh additives. These ingredients can disrupt your natural balance and make symptoms more likely.
Choosing a clean, low-osmolality, water-based lubricant can help support comfort without interfering with your body’s natural ecosystem. All Jems lubricants avoid glycerin, sugars, parabens, fragrances, and other common irritants to help reduce the chance of discomfort, but they are not a treatment for infection.

Regarding how lubricant affects duration, it generally enhances comfort (and pleasure) by reducing friction and preventing discomfort or fatigue.
However, some specialized lubricants with numbing agents (such as benzocaine) are used to delay ejaculation and potentially extend duration. Conversely, particular lubricants with specific sensations may increase stimulation, which could affect timing based on individual responses.
We would advise caution when using lubricants with these ingredients.
Yes. All Jems lubricants are designed to be safe for use with latex and polyurethane condoms, two of the most widely recommended materials for safer sex. Silicone lubricants should not be used with silicone toys, but they are fully condom-safe.
If you want to learn more about choosing clean condoms, check out our quick guide to non-toxic condoms
Like many intimate products, lubricants do have a shelf life. Water-based lubricants may have a shorter expiration window, while silicone lubes tend to last longer. Always check the packaging and avoid using lube that has changed in texture, color, or smell. Expired lubricant may be less effective and can cause irritation.