101: Anal Play

101: Anal Play

What are anal sex and anal play? AKA ‘anal’ or ‘butt stuff,’ anal play is any sexual activity that includes your butt. Anyone – any gender and any sexual orientation – can give, receive and...
Boundaries Factsheet

Boundaries Factsheet

In this factsheet, we’ll discuss: What is a boundary? Different types of boundaries (physical, emotional, sexual…) How to set boundaries, including phrases to use  What to do when your boundaries have been crossed How to...
Jems Loves MILFs: Yinka Animashaun on Deep Love and Sex Hitting Different

Jems Loves MILFs: Yinka Animashaun on Deep Love and Sex Hitting Different

Jems Loves MILFs is a series in which we ask moms of all kinds what gives them life. From art moms to aunties, grandmothers to Godmothers, single moms, queer moms, pet moms, and the mother...
Jems Loves MILFS: Jems Co-founder Yasemin Emory on Embracing the Shit Show

Jems Loves MILFS: Jems Co-founder Yasemin Emory on Embracing the Shit Show

Jems Loves MILFS is a series in which we ask moms of all kinds what gives them life. From art moms to aunties, grandmothers to Godmothers, single moms, queer moms, pet moms, and the mother...
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Who is giving real sex ed? Jems asked youth around the world  
101: Libido Discrepancy

101: Libido Discrepancy

How to Navigate Differing Libidos In Relationships By Taylor Neal Libido discrepancy—i.e. a difference in sexual desire or drive between partners—can be one of the most challenging things to navigate in romantic and/or sexual relationships, and...
Safer Sex Checklist #UncutJems

Safer Sex Checklist #UncutJems

What is safer sex and how can we have it? Jems presents a Safer Sex Checklist for you to reference and expand upon. An offering for the context we’re living and loving in.  Don’t miss...
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Jems Loves DILFs: Dog Dad Sean Viola on Putting Your Phone Down

Jems Loves DILFs is a series in which we ask dads of all kinds what gives them life.  Here, dog daddy Sean Viola of Tri-State Modern tells us about his new baby Pixie.  -- Tell...
Jems Loves GILFs: Guardians Shawna and Jasper on Grounding and Acceptance

Jems Loves GILFs: Guardians Shawna and Jasper on Grounding and Acceptance

Jems Loves GILFs is a series in which we ask parents of all kinds what gives them life.  Here, temporary guardians Shawna Shawnté and Jasper Jacobsen tell Jems about their radical community of support, grounding...
Jems Loves GILFs: Godbrother Yoma on Loyalty and Glam

Jems Loves GILFs: Godbrother Yoma on Loyalty and Glam

Jems Loves GILFs is a series in which we ask guardians of all kinds what gives them life.  Here, bicoastal community icon Yoma tells Jems about being a Godbrother to her young friend Nima and...